The best communication occurs with an even and equal exchange between two people. Getting to know someone new is like peeling an onion one thin layer at the time. But some people, overeager to get into deep and meaningful conversation, go too far too fast. Think of conversation as a tennis match in which the players lob the ball back and forth. They ask personal or sensitive questions that put the other person on the defensive. If feeling inhibited is a problem for some people, others go to the opposite extreme: they use a date as an opportunity to purge and vent. Rather they are designed to satisfy both a natural curiosity and a genuine desire to understand your girl.
If you inherited or won a million dollars, what would you do with it? What is the most embarrassing thing that has happened to you? Which fictional character do you believe is the most like yourself? Again, we don’t suggest that you bombard her with ALL these questions at on time – be selective and judge which seem appropriate. It’s impossible to date online without being well prepared. If your life was a movie, which actor would play you? Would you spit in a customer’s food if you were the waiter and they had been rude to you? If you could have any career possible, what would it be? Have you ever been arrested or contracted any diseases? When you need a break from serious questions, try some of the more hilarity-inducing options, such as these: 1. When you have a crush, you are more enamored with their looks than their personality.